My Husband’s Infuriating Habit Sets a Terrible Example for Our Kids. I’ve Asked Them to Police Him.

Parenting Column: Addressing Inconsiderate Behavior in Parking Spaces for Disabled People

Slate’s Care and Feeding column offers parenting advice to readers. A concerned spouse writes in about her husband’s habit of parking in spots designated for disabled individuals, which sets a poor example for their children. She worries about the repercussions of his actions and seeks guidance on how to approach the situation without involving the kids. The advice encourages explaining the significance of these parking spaces to the children and having a conversation with the husband about the impact of his thoughtless behavior. It emphasizes the importance of setting a positive example for the kids and fostering empathy. The column advises against burdening the children with correcting their father’s actions and suggests handling the matter sensitively and assertively.

Another parent seeks advice on dealing with their toddler’s refusal to wear clothes, especially when going out to places he dislikes. The response suggests considering the circumstances and not engaging in unnecessary power struggles. It recommends allowing the child some autonomy in appropriate settings and minimizing conflicts over dressing to avoid escalating the situation. The advice highlights the developmental stage of toddlers and how parental responses can influence their behavior.

In a separate query, a reader expresses concerns about their mother-in-law’s body odor lingering in their home after visits. Despite reluctance from the spouse to address the issue directly with the mother-in-law, the reader seeks advice on preventing the unpleasant smell from permeating their furniture. A simple solution of using plastic slipcovers is proposed to mitigate the odor issue effectively.

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