‘And Just Like That’ shares a message 50-somethings need to hear

Confession time: I recently watched the season premiere of HBO’s “And Just Like That,” the highly anticipated sequel to the popular “Sex and the City” series. Surprisingly, I’ve also binged every episode of the first two seasons. While I wasn’t a fan of the original show in the late ’90s and mid-’00s, I’m now strangely hooked on the follow-up. “Sex and the City” was a groundbreaking series that influenced gender norms of its time, portraying ambitious and stylish women in New York City. In contrast, I felt disconnected from that narrative as I navigated my own life back then.

The show’s revival, “And Just Like That,” caught my attention out of sheer boredom. Before I knew it, I found myself pondering, “Could I be a Carrie?” Despite never fully connecting with the original show, my wife can effortlessly quote entire episodes. The cast of Sarah Jessica Parker, Cynthia Nixon, Kristin Davis, and Kim Cattrall remains iconic, but my younger self was more drawn to different representations of masculinity prevalent at the time.

Although I immersed myself in typical masculine interests, such as action films and men’s magazines, the sequel series unexpectedly resonated with me. “And Just Like That” depicts characters navigating life in their 50s with all its messiness, a theme that mirrors my own experiences. As one grows older, it’s common to feel overlooked by mainstream media’s focus on youth-centric narratives.

The show follows the original characters, along with new additions, as they face breakup, coming out, and career pursuits in New York City. Beyond the glamour and wealth portrayed in the series, it delves into the complexities of aging and the challenges that come with it. Watching these characters embrace life and continue to evolve serves as a reminder that it’s never too late to pursue happiness and fulfillment.

Despite initially expecting a superficial storyline, the show’s exploration of middle age, disappointments, and mortality struck a chord with me. The unexpected depth and relatability of the characters, particularly in dealing with loss and personal growth, kept me engaged.

As I navigate my own life challenges, the themes of change and resilience portrayed in “And Just Like That” resonate deeply with me. The characters’ authenticity and vitality serve as a reminder that it’s okay to embrace vulnerability and pursue what truly matters, regardless of age or societal expectations.

While I have yet to disclose my admiration for the show to my male friends, I find solace in sharing my thoughts online. Embracing one’s passions, even if deemed “cringeworthy” by others, is essential to personal growth and self-acceptance. As I relate to the characters’ journeys in the series, I also find comfort in the meaningful conversations and connections with my close friends as we navigate life’s uncertainties and joys together.