A Key Feature of My Boyfriend’s Appearance Turns Me Off. He Refuses to Alter It.

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column where readers can submit questions anonymously. One reader is conflicted with their boyfriend who has grown a beard, causing discomfort during sex. The columnist advises that while the reader has the right to refuse sex for any reason, the boyfriend also has the right to keep his beard. Compromise is suggested to find a middle ground. Another reader seeks advice about their husband’s sudden premature ejaculation issue. The column discusses various causes and solutions, including seeking medical advice. Lastly, a reader expresses concern about their wife no longer performing oral sex. The columnist suggests open communication to address the issue and explore possible solutions.